Happy Friday, All!
We’ve got to put one in for the TEAM … so … T.G.I.F.!
“What would you do if I sang out of tune?!” … What would you say if I told you that I WASN’T having a nice day?! Would you encourage me to do better or simply criticize me and try to make me feel worse?! We all know that encouragement only goes so far … yet is far better than harsh criticism. Still, I remember my Dad who used to come at me pretty hard when I wasn’t “in tune”! Yet, he was my “father” … I could take that though I had to learn that it meant that he loved me … wanted to see me do better. His life had been hard for him so he seldom “sugar coated” anything. Perhaps, that is why I try to encourage people to better themselves in a “kinder” fashion … when possible!
Yes, I am still abroad from the USA … I don’t miss the drama and politics of a country that once claimed to be “the land of the free” and “the home of the brave”. We have been divided beyond recognition … in my opinion … by a political apparatus that seeks to do just that … divide and conquer … or something like that. Many folks are still choosing “sides” and acting as if it is a “game” we are playing with our lives … our children’s lives … and our planet! Peace be still …
While I am not a pessimist, I am a realist in terms of accepting what is to come … like death … Don’t get me wrong, now. I am NOT thinking about suicide or any crazy behavior that could lead to my death. I passed that stage back when I was about 12 or 13 years of age. Thank you Mom!! But I do know that I won’t live for ever … and that it could end at any time … this life I have been gifted. Is it really “mine”? Or must I share it with others?!? I embrace both “schools” of thought”, so to speak, and care for myself dearly as well as share of myself … yes … dearly! I am enjoying a good “90 day” vacation and am still in Spain. The reality is that I am looking for a place to retire … outside of the USA … as so many “ex-pats” have been doing for years! I want to be “at peace with the universe” in my last days and time and pay homage to “My Creator” … the rest of these “mofos” can “Get In Line!” Next weekend, I want to travel to Valencia one more time before I go back to the USA. I truly enjoy the ambiance of the Mediterranean Sea … as I do most beaches and bodies of water … and Valencia stole my heart! So, I will spend a weekend there, return to Sabadell, Barcelona, hopefully get to see “Montserrat” and prepare to arrive back at stateside around October 18th. One thing that I have been sure to do … even when working through the challenge of arthritis in both hips, sometimes walking with a cane, other times “roughing it” … is taking it all in! I have had the pleasure of meeting some of the coolest most real people in my entire life … and I’ve been around for a few “24 hours”! I am appreciative of the “new friends” that I have been able to meet whom I would NEVER have met stateside! Beautiful young people, charming Parisians and Barcelonians, funny and curious Germans and happy go lucky “Amsterdamians”! Needless to say, I am loving it and “taking it ALL in”! Who knows when I will be able to come this way again?!? Make sure that when you are given an opportunity of a lifetime that you do exactly this … take it ALL in!
Enjoy your weekends!
Peace,
John I. Cook, Director